I blogged an unnecessary emotional admission? Too long. So, tonight, you get this: You know what I’d really like? Someone to stand up for me with a guy. Sure, there haven’t been a whole lot of opportunities and yes, the guys were generally jerks not worth keeping around. But I have to admit that I’m jealous of the girls who get in with a guy’s friends and they say good things about her to him, and tell him he’s an idiot when he messes up, and say he should keep her around. Or the girl’s friends who call him on it. If other people don’t stick up for you or say good things, how can one person be expected to believe you’re anything but ordinary? And when you’re the one who ends up hurt, it hurts just a bit more knowing that no one plead your case or made them feel like an idiot for letting you go.
But that’s neither here, nor there, just an observation.