All right, folks, it happened. I turned 28. It wasn’t painful or sad or anything. It was delightful. Delightful because I hosted brunch and had book club that night.
But also because 27 was so damn good to me. I managed to accomplish 20/27 to-dos I set for myself, and I really loved every minute of it. This year, especially in the last six months, I really put fun (for lack of a better word) first. Not exactly loving my job helped me to spend more time reading, socializing, making friends, and adventuring. All my friends getting married sort of helped that along, too. And most important, all those things helped me inadvertently take Dickens’ quote to heart: I’m not dwelling on lost relationships, grad school failures, and other past hangups. This is my life, here and now, and by not looking back I’ve noticed far more present blessings.
Read the whats, hows, and how-nots, below. (And stay tuned for the 28 list later this week.) From the original 27 List page.
“Reflect upon your present blessings – of which every man has many – not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.”
– Charles Dickens
I’m in my late twenties. Officially the slippery slope to 30. My life’s not perfect but I have a lot. I am lucky. And while last year was a year of rebuilding and me, me, me, this should be a time to be thankful for who and what I have in my life, not focusing on what’s missing.
True to form, this will remain fluid and open to new goals. I’ll track my progress, in an unfashionably slow manner, here.
The 27 List
- Travel three places I have never been
Again, I set this goal and I get to exceed expectations beyond my wildest imagination. Last year was England, this year was Spain and Italy! A work trip sent me to Barcelona and Almeria, Spain, and I took the opportunity to vacation for a week beforehand. I boarded the Norwegian Epic cruise ship–all by myself–and went from Barcelona, to the top of Mount Vesuvius and the lost city of Pompeii, to the insanity and history of Rome and Vatican City, to the extreme serenity of the Cinque Terre, to the coast of France, and finally, to the island city of Palma de Mallorca and a day of swimming in the ocean. It was one of the most amazing things I will probably ever be able to do with my life, and I am so grateful it happened. My absolute favorite stop was the Cinque Terre. I bet you can see why.
- Consider my career (part 2)
Well, the last year has produced some of the worst moments and first grey hairs of my career. I really, truly need to think about who and what I want to be. Plus, my GRE scores run out soon (now?) and I’ll have to retake the test if I want to seriously consider the library/archiving route. So, I QUIT THE BARN. If that’s not a step in the right direction (for both surviving my day job and considering the future) then there is no right step or direction.
- Say yes
I said yes to a new job. To going out. To drinking. To friends. To more book clubs. More old books. More adventures. More sleeping. It was great. It took a few months, but once I finally gave in, I said yes to the social life and fun that I’d deprived myself of and that had eluded me for a long time.
- Say no
I could have done this earlier, but hitting late 27, I’ve said a lot of “No.” No to some extra sorority work. No to working late. No to working the second job. No to men who suck.
- Dry clean
I either only buy clothes that can be washed, or I buy sweaters that can be dry-cleaned and I instead wash them. It’s fine–a great way for me to limit what I buy–but there are some things that just need to be dry cleaned. So, I’ve had three lovely dresses go to the cleaners and come back ready for another formal occasion in 2014.
- Go to an Iowa Cubs game
Done! We lost. But it was a beautiful night and a lot of fun.
Go to a Twins game
I’m learning, in my second year of this, that I shouldn’t make so many things destination based. It’s hard with people’s schedules!
- See a 3D movie
I did! That movie was not Gravity, which is supposedly, like, the reason 3D movies were even invented. But that movie was THOR: Dark World and it was amazeballs. Plus an almost-touchable Chris Hemsworth is not something to turn down.
- Iowa Wild and Des Moines Buccaneers
We lost both. Who cares. #hockey #beer #friends
- Go to the Iowa State Fair
HUZZAH! I did! I lived in this fertile land for 27 years without once setting foot on the fabled event, which is grounds for expulsion in this state. So, mom, pop, and I took an early morning, pre-heat and pre-crowd trip to check it out. And by “check out” I mean eat all the fried food I could in 15 minutes. Left: mini cider donuts, fried Oreos, fried Twinkie. Right: double bacon corndog with syrup, fried Snickers.
- Bake something new
I’m calling this a win, even though it was really that I made these super sweet cookies with almond and my first-ever experience with Royal Icing. Royal Icing is the GREATEST.
Ain’t nobody got time for that. I had too many wedding-related craft projects.
- Read another Austen
Huzzah! I did this one on accident. I listened to Lady Susan on audiobook. Not so terribly exciting, but I’m glad I experienced it.
Read another Bronte
What? I started one, but that was a last-ditch effort. I had far too many reading goals.
Read another Collins
Ditto to the above.
- Brush up on history
I didn’t quite tackle a history book, as I might have thought when I wrote this, but I have read a few books with a heavy focus on history, and I definitely heard a lot of history on my tours of Pompeii and Vesuvius.
- Catch up on my magazine subscriptions
Every Day with Rachael Ray, check. More, check. Vogue, check. Vanity Fair, check. Esquire, check.
I tried some French-Word-A-Day email. It wasn’t daily. I’ve since found another. Fingers crossed. … I surrender, this one just isn’t happening. The new daily thing was just verbs, it seemed. I need to start more basic than learning how to say and use “to emboss.”
- Read two nonfiction books
Another accidental win! Two of my book clubs picked nonfiction reads: The Psychopath Test and My Year With Eleanor and Running Away to Home. I also listened to An Education and read a book I had been gifted a couple years ago, Summer at Tiffany. I really don’t often opt for nonfiction, so I’m kind of glad to see this was an effortless task on the list.
- Read Ian Fleming’s James Bond novels
Woohoo! It feels so good to say I did this. I read all but the first one this year.
Blog the Bond (finally)
Come to find out, deciphering notes you took on Bond movies in 2012 is not as easily remembered as you thought it would.
- Closet connection
I’ve got a clothes fetish, particularly from Target. And I also hoard clothes, even if I don’t need them. Enter this year’s slow purge of clothes I never wear. It’s been really, really nice.
- Cook vegetables
Brussels sprouts! Green beans! Broccoli! Sweet potatoes! A vegetarian chili!
- Drink more water
Thank you, Lent! I gave up pop (like every year) but this year I’m actually hoping to kick it for good. Water it is! Although it’s lots of water + Crystal Light or Propel or Mio or something. Baby steps. … No I haven’t kicked pop, but I’m drinking a lot less! And definitely craving it less.
- Send more mail
In an effort to read the magazine subscription, I sorted the 100+ food magazines I have. The ones I didn’t want anymore? Mailed it!
Lose 5 lbsMore like gain 10. Fuck. Ah, well, present blessings and all.
- Look at school qualifications
I didn’t just look, I met with reference professors, chatted up librarians, and I’ve started applying. BOOM.